JusLisenDammit!

Now, there's been a very startling trend amongst hombres (maybe the mamacitas too, but that's not my area of expertise). & as the blog name suggests, this is about telling my fellow men what the business is, so to speak.

Men don't listen. To other men, to women, or even to themselves. This is with regards to the important things AND the mundane. They just don't. Maybe its just a Kenyan problem (amongst many of our other faults). This story ilinifika mwisho the other day, so listen closely me hearties.

So I was on the rave with Mafans 10K as usual, having a blast. Then some attractive lasses came into view. Naturally, hombres' interest was peaked. So Guys 1 & 2 move in to assess.

As background assessers, I see it only fit to point out flaws in my friends' strategies if they are darting a mama. Albeit in a subtle way. So Guy 1 was talking too much and Guy 2 was to eager, saying yes to everything. & peoples told them so.

I dunno if its the illusion that your observant pal is jealous, ama excess pride, but guys NEVER want to hear they are making a mistake when it comes to girls. 'tis both very sad and very vexing. Guys 1 & 2 sneered at these comments and continued it their way. Once the lasses in question were adequately entertained and drink'd up, they moved on.

I don't know when it became uncool to listen to counsel. I must have missed that train. It has been said that a wise man listens to the counsel of others, but makes his own decisions in the end. Who knows, maybe next time she'll go home with you...